Being vulnerable is always seen as a sign of weakness but that is so not true. In fact, it is a sign of strength.
Selfcare – It’s Okay to be Vulnerable
Everyone in this world is afraid of being vulnerable because we find it extremely difficult to let ourselves out there and stand exposed. we do not want to open up about every tiny-winy detail of ourselves to the other person which also includes our weaknesses and insecurities.
However, when we let everything about ourselves up in the open, it is natural to feel afraid of getting hurt physically or mentally because of our vulnerability. To protect ourselves from any possible threat we tend to cover up and armor in all the possible ways.
This is very good in a way because when you’re completely armoured nobody will be able to hurt or attack you. But can you be fully armed always? is it a solution in the long run ? No! When you are always living with your guards up, it is like you never get to be your true selves ever. This is equivalent to living a fake life.
It is Ok to let Your Guards Off at times
- Being vulnerable you are showing your postivie and the negative side to the person. This means you are being real. Being real and tru to your partner helps in strenthening the relationship.
- Not letting your true self out can be really exhausting because you are actually faking everything. This is very diffuclt to cope with in long term .
- Do you know , vulnerability can make you a lot happier. When you let things out, you feel really liberated and don’t need to worry as much.
Being vulnerable is not bad, it is a form of self-care and self love. Let your guards off and feel liberated.