Over a period of time, most of the couples feel like their sex life has doomed, they don’t feel the same kind of excitement they had during the initial period of their relationship. It’s definitely not the end of your happy sex life, you can turn around the wheel anytime you want but with little effort and care.
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The couples face extreme difficulties in voicing it out to the partners fearing it might shatter their relationship. First of all, one shouldn’t feel afraid of opening up to their partners, the more you are open with each other, the easier it is for you to sort the issue out. But as with every communication, be gentle, realistic and most importantly choose your words wisely. We are looking forward to solving the issue here, not creating more problems in the relationship.
you can take some steps to break the monotony of your sex life. If you have opened with your partner, you both can come around with the solution to make it more interesting and enchanting. Try different and new things. Be open to new kinds of stuff.
Change the setting of your bedroom, add new accessories, make it more romantic and interesting. When you’re living with each other for so many years, you tend to forget all these aspects. Ambiance plays a very vital role. Redesigning your bedroom could be your answer to bring the spark back. So, start experimenting with your ambiance and room decor.
Pay attention to details, play some music which would help you both get into the moment. A little effort from both of you can be a real game-changer. The fact that you’re putting an effort to improve your sex life obviously earns your the brownie points you’ve been craving.
Sex must be for both the partners’ pleasure and it mustn’t be a mere task like bathing or doing dishes. So pay attention and enjoy the moment.
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